Saturday, September 17, 2016

Let's Dance!

Arden and I love to dance. Early in our marriage we took dance classes with a group of friends at a club and steakhouse in Larson, ND. We had just moved to Noonan and taken a class on Couple's Communication at our church with many of these same couples. We formed lifelong friendships with these couples and found lifelong enjoyment in dancing. Our favorites are fast waltzes and two steps but we also learned how to polka, schottische (sp?) and tango. What fun it was to have a night away from our young family and to make new friends. Now the challenge is finding good music to dance to and to have the energy to stay out that late since most dances don't start until 10pm!

We are familiar with the saying  "Dance Like No One's Watching" but that is hard to put into practice. Lee Ann Womack says it well in her song "I Hope You Dance"

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin'
Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin'

Don't let some Hellbent heart leave you bitter

When you come close to sellin' out, reconsider
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance (Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along)
I hope you dance
I hope you dance (Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder)
I hope you dance (Where those years have gone?)


I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance!

One of my favorite authors, Joyce Rupp, also says it well:

   "Then David, girt with a linen apron, came dancing before the Lord with abandon." 2 Samuel 6:14

 I ask myself: Do I do anything "with abandon" before my God? Have I ever been that wildly enamored of and grateful for this Gracious One's presence in my life? Does my heart sing with joy? Do my feet lift in happiness? Why is it, I wonder, that I more often pray about pain and troubles than I do about joy and delight? I know my laughter and my enjoyment of life can be as much prayer as my solemn and somber moments of reflection. King David's enthusiastic response to God has reminded me of this. Today I will look for something to dance about in my prayer and in my life.


©  Joyce Rupp, God's Enduring Presence

Down 5.6# this  month and I feel like dancing!   

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

What makes you upset or angry?

Righteous anger is typically a reactive emotion of anger over mistreatment, insult, or malice. It is akin to what is called the sense of injustice. (from Wikipedia)
Emily Litella is an elderly woman with a hearing problem who appeared 26 times on SNL'Weekend Update op-ed segmentin the late 1970s.[2][3] Attired in a frumpy dress, sweater and 
Lisa Loopner glasses, Litella was introduced with professional dignity by the news anchors, who could sometimes be seen cringing slightly in anticipation of the malapropisms they knew would follow.

Gilda Radner (as Litella) would peer through her reading glasses and, in the character's trademark high-pitched, warbly voice, would read a prepared statement in opposition to an editorial that the TV station had supposedly broadcast. These sketches were, in part, a parody of the Fairness Doctrine, which at the time required broadcasters in the United States to present opposing viewpoints on public issues. Litella would become increasingly agitated as her 
statement progressed. Midway in her commentary, it would became apparent that she had misheard and/or misunderstood the subject of the editorial to which she was responding. A typical example:What is all this fuss I hear about the Supreme Court decision on a "deaf" penalty? It's  terrible! Deaf people have enough problems as it is![4]
The news anchor would interrupt Litella to point out her error, along the lines, "That's death penalty, Ms. Litella, not deaf ...death."[4] Litella would wrinkle her nose, say, "Oh, that's very different...." then meekly turn to the camera and say, "Never mind."[5] When Litella played against news anchor Chevy Chase (whom she often called "Cheddar Cheese"[6]), he would be somewhat sympathetic to her. But when Jane Curtin took over the anchor role, she would scold Litella, "Every week you come on and you get it wrong," to which Litella would reply, "Bitch!"
[5]

Other misheard topics to which Litella responded included "saving Soviet jewelry" [Jewry],[7] "endangered feces" [species],[5]"violins on television" [violence],[8] "presidential erections" [elections],[9] "conserving natural racehorses" [natural resources],[8] "firing the handicapped" 
[hiring],[2] and "making Puerto Rico a steak" [state].[10] About the last of these topics, she 
complained, "Next thing you know, they'll want a baked potato with sour cream!"[11]

Val's words: What does anger and being upset have to do with a blog on healthy eating? When I am angry or upset I tend to turn to food for comfort. I use food to cover up the shame of blowing my top when I could have reacted in a calmer manner. Arden and I resolve conflict   better when we listen to each other and when we learn to laugh at how silly some of our conflicts are. Some good questions to ask myself are:
  • Am I scared of losing control of the situation?
  • Why is it important for me to have control?
  • Does my personality make me more prone to anger? How can I better understand and celebrate my personality?
  • Am I angry much of the time? Sometimes anger can indicate depression.
  • Am I ill or on medication that would contribute to my anger?
  • Can I find humor in the situation, more importantly can I laugh at myself?
  • Is there another side that I need to hear?
  • Do I feel heard?
  • Is there a way to express my feelings calmly and clearly?
  • Would it be better to wait and discuss this at another time?
  • How can I become a "non-anxious" presence to those nearest and dearest to me?
  • How can I focus on the positive?
  • Is there someone I trust who I can talk to about my frustration? Will they give me their objective opinion about the situation?      Will they be honest with me?  
                                                                      
From an article in Christianity Today:  And Jesus expressed anger—at the Pharisees who exhibited such hard hearts (Mark 3:1-5) and at the crass commercialism that sullied the temple (Matthew 21:12-13Luke 19:45-48)—to convey extreme displeasure over sin. Those reasons are the key to righteous anger.
How does this affect me? As Christ-followers, we're totally appropriate getting upset over sin, too. Evils such as abuse, racism, pornography, and child sex trafficking should incense us.
But no matter how reprehensible the people or activities we're condemning, we still aren't justified to sin in our responses: "When you are angry, do not sin, and be sure to stop being angry before the end of the day" (Ephesians 4:26, NCV). Those of us with confrontational personalities might want to ask ourselves the question, Is my motive to be right or to be righteous? before ripping into the offending parties.
Such considerations also help us be pokey in getting peeved: "Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God" (James 1:19–20, ESV). Instead of replying immediately, simply counting to ten before reacting usually leads to much better results in a contentious situation.
Then after we take offense, we should take redemptive action. Christians must get involved with organizations working to free children from slavery and volunteer at shelters working to protect battered women. We must lead the charge against hatred and oppression and cruelty!
Ultimately, if our outrage results in restoring people into loving, healing relationships with Jesus, it's righteous anger.
Lisa Harper has a Masters in Theology with an emphasis in biblical studies from Covenant Theological Seminary in St. Louis. She's a sought-after speaker and has written several books, including Holding Out for a Hero: A New Spin on Hebrews (Tyndale) and What the Bible Is All About for Women: A Book of Devotions (Regal). Visit her atwww.lisaharper.net.

Copyright © 2008 by the author or Christianity Today/Today's Christian Woman magazine.



Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Keeping Secrets

We all keep secrets. Some are fun such as the secret we kept from my sister and brother in law about their surprise 50th Wedding Anniversary Party this last weekend. There were numerous slips and rolled eyes or nods to re-direct conversation in the days leading up to the surprise party but they both didn't notice the slips and were totally surprised!  It was fun but exhausting to keep the secret. We were all glad when the time for the party arrived and we didn't have to worry about spilling the beans about it.

When we were foster parents, we were told that many families keep secrets about struggles and abuse and other horrific things and that the healthiest situations are when we can reveal these things to those closest to us. Often if we keep horrific secrets we turn to overeating or other addictions. It is in revealing the secrets that we find peace. It is common to think that we are the only ones who have suffered abuse or bullying or humiliation but we can often find others who have gone through similar things. We are not alone. Others can help us heal. My prayer is that we find someone whom we can become honest with....someone to share our secrets.

Here's an interesting excerpt from an article at  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/elena-brower/art-of-attention-ode-to-o_b_861861.html

"Lauren marvels at how easily people shift gears once she defines what’s included in a lie: those little details we hide from others, because we’ve deemed them irrelevant; or the way we tell most of the story, depending on who’s listening. She and I teamed up to create a class for yoga teachers, having 
learned from my smoking situation, about the stark divide between the lies we’re telling and the 
teachings we’re sharing. I was a hypocrite, plain and simple. The smoking was one of my lies. Telling people I’ve read such-and-such book after having glanced at the chapter titles is another funny catch. All of it is lying. Now, if I catch myself in a lie of any kind, I have fifteen minutes to come clean, from the moment I recognize my skewing of the truth. And the coming clean is always exhilarating, and brings me closer to my heart every time."

PS: Down 4.8 # since the start of this phase 3weeks ago. Let's Go!





Monday, August 29, 2016

Distraction...

I am usually hungry after my morning kayak and today I was hungry for an Olive Garden salad made with Romaine lettuce, onion, croutons, Parmesan cheese and salami.  I know I just said in my last blog that salami or summer sausage should not be our main protein but oh, well, that's what I was hungry for! The problem of distraction arose when I couldn't remember where I moved the croutons. I think it's easier to be distracted when you are retired because you do not have to be as focused on time.

  • I cut up the Romaine lettuce and onion and went to look for croutons.
  • I looked in the first cupboard and saw that I had recently bought three different kinds of flour and hadn't emptied them into the appropriate cannisters yet so let's do that now.
  • I looked into the second drawer and found some marshmallows that were mushed and sticky so I took them out to remind myself to make Rice Krispie bars before the weekend.
  • I also found the German chocolate bar and took that out wondering if I can find that recipe I wanted to try.
  • Oh, look, the toilet paper that I bought two days ago is in the corner of the kitchen so I'd better put it away. 
  • Oh and this bill is on the counter and I'd better pay it before I forget. 
  • Here's the salami and Parmesan cheese but the handles on the fridge are sticky so I'd better clean them.
  • Still looking for the croutons and I looked where the crackers are so I should straighten that area out and taste to see if any crackers are getting stale. 
  • What the heck....will eat the salad without croutons but with a few crackers! 
Naturally, the conventional wisdom is to find ways to focus.  Personally I have a love/hate thing going with really focused people.  I envy their sheer determination in keeping that focus going and 
often think that would be a great thing to have.  On the other hand if I was walking around single-mindedly focusing on one thing, there is a boatload of things I wouldn’t notice or see.  And what if one of those things could be the greatest inspiration of my life?  See the dilemma? (From https://writerchick.wordpress.com/2014/02/19/do-you-have-oh-look-theres-a-squirrel-syndrome/)


Saturday, August 27, 2016

Random Thoughts


  • There's a special satisfaction in a physical workout....just came in from a 3 mile kayak....no amount of comfort food can equal the high of a good workout. Even when you're tired a short walk is going to help you lose weight.
  • As much protein as possible at breakfast staves off cravings during the day.
  • Sometimes all of the work and effort that goes into preparing something healthy ends up in the garbage because it didn't taste good. It's taken me a long time to learn to say "oh well, that didn't work out" rather than beating yourself up for the time and money invested.
  • Protein should come from something other than hot dogs or summer sausage.
  • Tracking calories is very helpful even when you haven't made good choices.
  • Tracking macros is also helpful.
  • Weight Watchers has it right in allowing fruits and many vegetables to be zero points.
  • Real, whole food is much better than the shakes that are so popular now.
  • Today is a good day for a good day!

Thursday, August 18, 2016

H.A.L.T. and other strategies

I read an article that said when you feel like snacking you should stop and consider are you

  • Hungry
  • Angry
  • Lonely
  • Tired
We should learn to cope with our angry, lonely, tired feelings in healthy ways instead of unhealthy ways such as binge eating, drinking alcohol or getting angry etc.  But first we have to stop and recognize what we are feeling. We may also be feeling thirsty or overwhelmed. We then have to consider healthy ways to deal with those feelings.....talking with a friend, going for a walk, drinking some water, playing a game, having a cup of tea or reading a book....only you know what is comforting. 

It's been a good week for getting back on track and I am ready to go the distance.  Down 3.5#!
Let's Go!

Life is Difficult

I was reading a FB post about helicopter parents making things easy for their kids by removing obstacles when I was reminded of the first line of Dr. Peck's book, "The Road Less Traveled" which says "Life is difficult". So we are much better telling our kids and grandkids that there will be difficulties but we are smart, we are overcomers and we can figure out how to get through the difficulties.

Yesterday was a typical hump day and typical day three of any new eating plan. It was difficult.  I was bored with it. I wanted someone else to cook for me. I wanted someone else to clean up. But I overcame the difficulties by kayaking for three miles, simplifying and adapting the meal plan and by taking a nap and by having some chocolate within the plan! Yeah me!

Today will be easier as I have to take Lisa to Minot for an appointment so I have a plan for eating while we travel. Grandpa will stay with the Grandkids and feed and clean-up and get things ready for company! No kayaking but maybe a bike ride with grandkids this evening. Let's Go!

PS: These struggles seem so trivial in comparison to the people facing cancer or other life threatening diseases as well as those facing flooding in Louisiana and fires in California.  Forgive me Lord for whining. Thank you for helping me through both big and small difficulties.

Tuesday, August 16, 2016

Today is the First Day of the Rest of my Life

So what do I want for the rest of my life?

  • To be more active
  • To be stronger
  • To have better balance
  • To have less pain in my joints
  • To have fun
  • To enjoy a variety of activities with friends and family
So how was my first day on the Biggest Loser plan?
  • The plan was easy to follow.
  • It had "normal" foods that were easy to prepare.
  • The food was delicious.
  • I have generous friends who share their garden produce.
  • I made some minor substitutions of same calories, same nutritional value.
  • I peed a lot as I was drinking more water!
  • This country is blessed with a bounty of choices of food and drink.
  • I love eating "real" foods.
What were my biggest struggles?
  • I struggled with overcoming my habit of nibbling my way through the day.
  • I missed having the freedom of "mindless" eating.
  • I can't think of anything funny or clever to say!
  • Food prep and clean-up is more work.
What are my worries? And what are solutions to those worries?
  • We are having company this weekend? Can I follow the plan while they are here? Yes, they are helpful and supportive. Prep and plan ahead of time.
  • It's too hard....that's my inner, whining child coming out!
  • Can I sustain this? Yes....maybe pick up some Nutritious TV dinners for the days when you are busy or tired of prepping. Ask for help when you need it.
I kayaked for over 3 miles yesterday. It looks like another beautiful day for kayaking. The grandkids were so good...we staged some good Olympic games and they played and played with the new wooden swords I bought them! Let's Go on to day two!

Monday, August 15, 2016

Let's Go!

So how's it going with your healthy eating, you might ask since I haven't written in my blog for four months? I haven't lost any weight in fact I have gained back the 7 pounds I lost earlier. I have however become stronger. I have kayaked an average of 3 miles for 30 of the last 60 days! If I sit on something 12 inches off the floor, I can now stand without using my hands or other assistance. That strength makes it so much easier to get out of my kayak without getting wet. So I set aside my goal to lose weight these last few months but I am ready to start again. I would like to do some short, humorous posts about this journey. My plan is to follow a different plan each week so that I won't become discouraged or bored. I want to have fun!. It's crazy that I feel like starting again the week that we have our grandchildren but I think that will just add to the humor and fun! Here's my plan for the week: http://www.prevention.com/sites/prevention.com/files/Biggest-Loser-1-Week-Diet-Plan.pdf
At the end of every week, I will report on my progress and my rating of the plan.

I have noticed that announcing any challenge via a blog often sets a person up for failure....not this time...not for me.....Let's Go!

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Obesity

Dr. Phil says that you can't change what you don't acknowledge.  I have been obese for 25 years and I faithfully get an annual physical.  Not once has a doctor mentioned my obesity.  Were they being polite because they knew me professionally or is it like the elephant in the room so let's not talk about it? Several years ago, when I was asked my weight when renewing my Drivers license,( I don't think you have to do that anymore) I decided that I was not going to lie anymore but tell the truth about my weight.  I believe that being faithful and truthful in small things will lead me to being faithful and truthful in all things and that's important to me.  I don't want to pretend that I'm not obese anymore. 


Obesity is a medical condition in which excess body fat has accumulated to the extent that it may have a negative effect on health. People are generally considered obese when their body mass index (BMI), a measurement obtained by dividing a person's weight by the square of the person's height, is over 30 kg/m2, with the range 25–30 kg/m2 defined as overweight.[1] Some East Asian countries use lower values. Obesity increases the likelihood of various diseases, particularly heart disease, type 2 diabetes, obstructive sleep apnea, certain types of cancer, and osteoarthritis.[3]
Obesity is most commonly caused by a combination of excessive food intake, lack of physical activity, and genetic susceptibility.   (from Wikipedia)

The National Institutes of Health (NIH) define morbid obesity as: Being 100 pounds or more above your ideal body weight. Or, having a Body Mass Index (BMI) of 40 or greater. Or, having a BMI of 35 or greater and one or more co-morbid conditions.



Obesity in the United States has been increasingly cited as a major health issue in recent decades. While many industrialized countries have experienced similar increases, obesity rates in the United States are among the highest in the world. Obesity has continued to grow within the United States. Two out of every three Americans are considered to be overweight or obese. During the early 21st century, America often contained the highest percentage of obese people in the world. Obesity has led to over 120,000 preventable deaths each year in the United States. An obese person in America incurs an average of $1,429 more in medical expenses annually. Approximately $147 billion is spent in added medical expenses per year within the United States. (from Wikipedia).


This is not meant as a judgment or condemnation. We are all on this journey called life and we have different struggles and need to love and support each other.  If we acknowledge our problems and ask for help, we will be better prepared to fix it.  This day, let's work together to understand and reduce obesity. 






Saturday, April 30, 2016

Cheat/Treat Day

One of my favorite commercials:
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LT6n1HcJOio








I usually choose to have a cheat/treat after my weigh-in on Thursdays.  I do this as a way to reward myself, regardless of whether I have lost or gained weight.  It's just a way of saying "Ahhhh, I made it through the week. I was learning more about myself and trying to learn to eat healthier." 


Why do we see sweets or chips or high calorie "empty" foods as a treat?  Why don't we think that we are really treating ourselves when we are eating nutrient dense, wholesome foods?  Part of it is what we learned while growing up.  How many of us heard "if you clean your plate, you can have dessert" ?






Desserts are the sweet stuff of which memories are made, particularly in a holiday season, a time typically so rich with recollections.  For while tastes, trends and technology come and go, the country’s sweet tooth has remained ever keen. Why? Michael Krondl, a New York City food historian and author of “Sweet Invention: A History of Dessert,” says our continuing hunger for dessert is based on two things: childhood and celebrations. “Sweetness is one of the first tastes we love,” he says, referring to childhood. As for celebrations, “it used to be anything sweet was expensive because of the sugar” so sugar was saved for important things, like wedding cakes, birthday cakes and Christmas cookies. 




We can change traditions and our tastes.  My grandchildren feel that cantaloupe cubes or cucumber slices are a treat also.  How cool is that?  Instead of dessert being a daily or twice daily tradition, can we change it to once a week or once a month?  Can fresh fruit be our go to treat? 

Questions to ask ourselves:
  • Do we really feel better after having a treat? 
  • When you survey a table at a potluck, are there more sweets than healthy things?
  • What can we do to change the family or community traditions to healthier things?
  • After a treat/cheat is it harder to get back on track?
  • This day, are there some non-food treats that we can use to reward ourselves? 




 There is great information on sugar addiction at  http://growinghumankindness.com/sugar-support/ 

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Challenges and Joys

My grandchildren used to play a game before bedtime called Roses and Thorns.  In the game, they were to talk about the good and bad things in their days.  It was a good chance for their parents or grandparents to talk with them about the joys and challenges in life. 


My challenges lately have been:
  • Adjusting to Van Hook and it's remoteness after a winter in Fargo
    • Yeah for Amazon
    • Yeah for new, well-stocked grocery stores in New Town and Stanley
  • Adjusting to a different routine and a different house/kitchen
  • Tolerating the cold and sometimes windy weather which make walking outside difficult
  • More severe aching than usual probably due to the weather
  • Getting off track with my commitment to healthier lifestyle during a several day Birthday celebration
My Joys have been:
  • A cozy supper at a new place with friends I hadn't seen much this winter
  • Warm tea and/or a hot bath after a chilly walk outside
  • Jigsaw puzzles
  • Good Movies
  • Good Books
  • Much needed rain and my mud boots
  • Some delicious new recipes
  • Having the time and energy to cook and clean up
  • Quiet visits with a neighbor and my sister and brother in law
I read an excellent article about being able to tell the difference and react accordingly to a lump in the oatmeal or a lump in the breast.  My challenges this week were definitely a lump in the oatmeal.  This day is a new day and I will focus on the positive and continue with this commitment to a more healthy lifestyle. 


Accountability and Progress

A good reason for starting this blog is for accountability.  Today is weigh-in day.  I started this journey 40 days ago and I have lost 7 pounds.  I would certainly like to lose faster and there has been some ups and downs in these 40 days but I know I am in it for the long haul so will celebrate those 7 pounds being gone and the lessons I have learned along the way.  To keep myself accountable I plan to journal/track my food each day and to exercise at least 5 out of 7 days.  In these last 40 days I have tracked my food 30 out of 40 days and exercised 36 out of 40 days.  I use an app called My Fitness Pal which I love.  I started this journey using Weight Watchers because I have had success with them in the past.  I realized that I just wanted them for the accountability of the weigh-in and not the lectures so quickly switched to My Fitness Pal.  It's hard to track when I know I am over my calorie limit or that I am bingeing or eating un-healthily. If I don't deny my slip and acknowledge it instead, it will help me to analyze what gets me off track and figure out how to stay on course.  Here are the lessons I have learned:
  • When going to a potluck, think about what you are really hungry for and have it!  I was really hungry for the awesome brisket but ate many other things before settling on a beef brisket sandwich.  If I had eaten that first, I may have been satisfied and avoided all of the other things. 
  • Because it was my birthday and I didn't have cake that day, I made myself a pan of yummy Coconut Cream bars.  Over the course of several days, I ate several pieces and then finally froze the rest.  I should have frozen them or given them away or thrown them after the first piece. 
  • I visited my daughters the weekend before my birthday.  They had a lovely party and we had a wonderful brownie fudge cake.  Steph and I were fighting over my having a piece of the cake before the meal was ready and she said "For the love of God and all things sacred, let this be the first time ever that we have a cake or bring a pan to a potluck or some other event where the first piece or first row is not already eaten before it gets to the event!!" While she was off in the other room, I snuck a piece (saying it was for Olivia)!!  Lesson learned:  have fun and sometimes it's ok to be patient for the good things in life!!


Today I am thankful for apps that help me track and for my honesty to myself and others. 

Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Wednesday is picture day!

Avocado Toast, Greek yogurt with nuts, fruit and splash of maple syrup and scrambled egg, spinach, pear tomato in a wrap.
The avocado/tomato/walnut/feta salad was AMAZING.  I nearly burned the walnuts while toasting them but their flavor was what really made the salad pop. The Southwest Salad is one of my favorites with black beans, corn, sweet peppers, Romaine lettuce and tostada strips.   The V8 Healthy greens was a new juice I tried.  I don't usually like to drink my fruits or vegetables but decided to give this a try.  More fruity than veggie and 90 calories.  Is equal to 1.5 servings of fruits and vegetables.  It will be handy to grab when traveling or if I have ran out of fresh fruits and veggies.


                           Asparagus, Tomato and Feta Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette
INGREDIENTS (for 7 servings):
Vinaigrette:
6 Tbsp balsamic vinegar
1/4 cup olive oil...
2 tsp dijon mustard
2 tsp honey
1 clove garlic, minced
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
Salad:
2 lbs fresh asparagus (preferably medium thickness), tough ends trimmed, remaining diced into 2-inch pieces
1 (10.5 oz) pkg. grape tomatoes, halved
2/3 cup chopped walnuts, toasted
4 oz feta cheese, crumbled (scant 1 cup)
DIRECTIONS:
Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Meanwhile prepare vinaigrette - add vinegar to a small saucepan, bring to a boil over medium heat and allow to boil until reduced by half, about 3 minutes. Pour into a jar or bowl, add olive oil, dijon mustard, honey, garlic and whisk to blend while seasoning with salt and pepper to taste. Set aside.
Add asparagus to boiling water and allow to boil until tender crisp, about 4 - 5 minutes. Meanwhile fill a medium mixing bowl with ice and cold water. Drain and immediately transfer asparagus to ice water, let rest about 10 seconds then drain asparagus well. Transfer to a bowl with tomatoes and walnuts. Drizzle vinaigrette over top and toss lightly. Sprinkle over half of the feta then plate and top with remaining feta (just so the feta doesn't brown from tossing with all the dressing).
 Recipe source: Cooking Classy

SOUTHWEST SALAD
  • 1/2 ripe avocado, mashed
  • 3/4 cup packed fresh cilantro (I skip this cuz I don't like it) 
  • 2 scallions, chopped or 1/4 cup chopped purple onion
  • 1 clove garlic, quartered
  • 1 tablespoon lime juice
  • 1/2 teaspoon sugar
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 3 cups mixed greens
  • 1 cup black beans, canned (rinsed) or cooked
  • 1 cup corn kernels, fresh or frozen (thawed)
  • 1 cup grape tomatoes
  • May add Tostada strips if you want.  Mash the avocado and add the lime  juice, sugar, and salt for the dressing.   





    

    DIET VERSUS HEALTHY LIFESTYLE CHANGE

    So why am I blogging and making a commitment to lose 66# by my 66th birthday in a year?  What makes me think I can be successful this time when I haven't been successful in losing more than 30# in the last 25 years?  And why were those 30# quickly regained? What makes this time different from the dozens of other diets I have tried? BECAUSE I BELIEVE THAT I FINALLY GET IT....after a year of sporadically practicing clean eating I am finally ready to make this a permanent change because I realize that I am worth it.   Maybe I get it because I am getting older. Maybe I get it because the clean eating and mindful eating seems so right.  It goes along with all of the nutritional education I have had.  Maybe I get it because I have worked with the elderly my whole life and I know how important it is to be as healthy as possible as we approach our 70's and 80's and beyond.  Many of you may know that my Dad lived to the age of 100 and had a high quality of life until his death. I don't know or even care if I make it to 100 but I do know that I want the quality of my life to be excellent until I die.  Even though I have no significant health issues beyond my arthritis right now, I know it is only a matter of time that my obesity may lead to high blood pressure or diabetes or other complications.  Won't you join me on this journey? 


    More than 100 million Americans were on a diet in 2012, reports ABC News. The weight-loss industry rakes in $20 billion annually -- with diet plans and supplements that promise to help you lose weight and keep it off -- and still nearly 70 percent of American adults remain overweight or obese, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. While diets may help you lose some weight temporarily, lifestyle change is the key to long-term weight maintenance and health.


    A diet consists of temporarily changing your eating habits to promote a certain outcome -- commonly weight loss -- before returning to your previous eating habits. On the other hand, a lifestyle change consists of adopting healthy overall habits that promote long-term weight control and health. In addition, diets focus on food intake, while lifestyle changes incorporate what you eat along with other factors that affect weight and health, such as physical activity. Where weight loss is concerned, a diet provides a temporary solution and singular approach to a multifaceted, long-term health issue.


    from http://healthyeating.sfgate.com/diet-vs-lifestyle-change-11130.html


    Sunday, April 24, 2016

    Breakfast of Champions


    Here are a few of my favorites that I've eaten this week:
    Avocado Toast....poached eggs with avocado slices on whole grain toast and balsamic vinegar sprinkled on top. Eaten with Galia melon. The balsamic vinegar is an acquired taste so you can skip it if you want.

    Slow scrambled eggs with spinach, onions, pear tomatoes, topped with Feta cheese and eaten in a wrap.

    Triple zero Dannon greek yogurt with nuts, fruit and a splash of maple syrup.  The yogurt has no added sugar, no artificial sweeteners and no fat. I would not mind the full fat yogurt but I most want to avoid real and artificial sugar.

    There's not a picture of what I had this morning. Oatmeal (check for sugar and chemicals) with fruit and Jif peanut powder. I often add coconut oil but forgot it this morning.

    I rarely eat boxed cereal as most have a lot of chemicals and sugar and little protein. It's proven that protein staves off hunger later in the day. I am rarely hungry for breakfast but eat it anyway. I usually wake up around 7 and try to eat breakfast by 9. If I am on the road, I will grab a piece of fruit with nuts along with coffee and water.

    Friday, April 22, 2016

    A Long Post on Healthy Eating but Worth Your Read if You Want To Change Your Health...


    Val’s words: I recently started on a journey to lose 66# by my 66th birthday which is a year from now.  Although I have been studying and learning about clean eating for over a year, this gives me added incentive to practice it on a more consistent basis.  So much of this healthy eating information goes against how we have eaten all of our lives.  The only vegetables I ate as a child were green beans, corn, peas, and carrots. In the summer we had radishes and of course leaf lettuce served with cream and sugar!! Most of our meals were meat and potatoes and one of the above vegetables along with bread and dessert.  The only fruits we had were apples, oranges and bananas and watermelon at picnics in the summer.  I didn’t even know what broccoli or cauliflower was until I was in college.  One of the reasons was because our refrigerated transportation system didn’t allow for getting more exotic fruits and vegetables to our rural areas when I was a child in the 1950’s.  I am so glad that even in rural western North Dakota, a variety of fruits and vegetables are now available to us.  In addition, we raised beef and pork and sometimes chickens so having fish was not common.  The only way I knew how to have chicken was fried.  I am so grateful that the internet provides a lot of information on healthy eating and healthy food preparation.  I don’t necessarily trust recipes or internet sites as some are not good or healthy so use your head when exploring!! One of the things that I am trying not to do is to refer to all of the dessert and sweet recipes that abound on Facebook and other places as “good”.  They are NOT good for us.  They may taste good temporarily but they lead to obesity and early death and all kinds of problems.  Yes, I do indulge occasionally (once a month)  but not every day as I used to.  Am I perfect, NO, NO, No, but am I learning, YES, Yes, Yes!!.   Here are a couple of favorite healthy eating sites. 



     

    The following information is taken from the following website:  http://www.eatthis.com/clean-eating-plan.  I have removed the advertising and links to other information so if you want to see that just go to the website.  I have found that this is good, basic information on clean eating.  All of the “rules” can be confusing and overwhelming (see my blog on vexations!!) but it is well worth your time to read this whole long article if you are interested in eating healthier.  The writing in red italics is my thoughts on the article. 

    “Eating clean is giving your body what it needs to thrive. It’s about getting away from ‘fake foods’ and embracing real ones. When we switch to eating clean, we refresh our eating habits and eat without limiting major food groups or even counting calories! We’ll not only ward off disease by eating this way, but we lose weight, and de-bloat, making ourselves feel comfortable in our body, and look the way we were meant to,” says Lisa Hayim, registered dietician

    1. Bring Carbs back: Yes, you read that right. Carbs are not a villain, folks. And eating clean doesn’t mean you have to give up this vital macronutrient. (Your body needs all three - carbs, protein and fat - to survive and thrive.) Hayim breaks it down: “Carbs just have a bad rap! Yes, most packaged high-sugar foods are carbohydrate-dense, but carbs, in their natural source, are just as important (if not more important) to your help your body function as the other macronutrients, protein and fat!” Fun Fact Time: “Your brain loves carbohydrates, and can’t even function without it. But that does not mean your brain does not love Twinkies! It means your brain loves whole grains like brown rice and quinoa, legumes, vegetables, fruits for they are not only clean sources of carbohydrates, but also carry fiber, vitamins, and minerals.”
    2. Load up your plate: Amen to this one, right? “Contrary to most diets, eating clean allows you to eat more food, not less. The difference is you are able to eat more and still maintain/lose weight because you are making more mindful, educated and informed food choices,” says Hayim. “Eating clean isn’t some kind of fad diet that eliminates major food groups; instead, it provides you with the tools to make better decisions within those food groups. When we eat clean, there are no ‘cheat meals’ when we want a treat. You can, in fact, enjoy celebrations in moderation.”
    3. Steer Clear of Eating Low Quality Power Bars: Mmmm, nothing like guzzling down some tasty whey protein and maltodextrin after a hard workout, right? So. Wrong. You may equate eating clean with those purportedly wholesome power bars, but they may be doing you more harm than good. “Most power bars are filled with sugar and poor-quality ingredients like isolated soy protein and chemical additives. Instead, choose a handful of nuts and a piece of fruit,” advises Annie Kay, MS, RDN.
    4. Go Meatless at Least One Day per Week: No, it doesn’t have to be Monday, but it’s still important. “To reduce your carbon footprint and eat sustainably, try going meatless one day per week. Plant-based foods are often less processed than meat and offer an abundance of nutrients. Beans, lentils, nuts, seeds (e.g. chia, hemp), tofu, and certain whole grains, like quinoa and buckwheat, offer a great source of protein,” says Alexandra Miller, RDN, LDN, Corporate Dietitian. I am not a fan of Tofu and have not practiced going meatless one day a week but am going to start now. 
    5. Break Up With Fried Foods: It’ll be easier than ditching that summer fling, we promise. And don’t forget to look for fried food concealing itself under sneaky names: “In addition to forgetting the fried, deep-fried and pan-fried foods, [nix anything on a menu or label that’s] crispy, au gratin, or stuffed. All of which are high in bad fats and calories, and contain zero nutritional value (even if it did before it went into the fryer!). Instead, look for steamed, broiled, baked, grilled, poached or roasted foods,” says Peggy Kotsopoulos, RHN, nutritionist.
    6. Balance Your Plate: Restrictive diets are never realistic for the long haul, so learning to balance your plate may be key to lasting clean eating,” shares Dr. Tasneem Bhatia, MD, also known as “Dr.Taz,” a weight loss expert and author of What Doctors Eat and The 21-Day Belly Fix. “Use my 3:1 rule; every plate should be 3 parts fresh- as in fresh vegetables, fruits, lean meats, healthy fats and one part frozen, canned or boxed. Change the proportion of fresh to packaged and clean eating becomes an elusive goal.”
    7. Read Your Labels: We’re talking IRL-syndrome here: Intensely Read Labels. Not high school Huck Finn-status scanning. Read the labels: “In the wise words of Tosca Reno, one of the pioneers of the Eat Clean diet, ‘if you can’t read it, don’t eat it!’ If it sounds complex, or like a word straight out of chemistry class, chances are it is added to artificially preserve the food or sweeten it. When we eat clean, we aim to eat real food sources,” says Hayim. “Marketing on packaging can be deceptive: Just go straight to the ingredient list and make your own judgments. Sometimes, we’ll even find we have to walk away from foods that are labeled as ‘healthy and gluten free’ after learning what’s really in it.” Pro-tip: “Avoid additives like artificial sweeteners, food colorings, and the preservatives BHA/BHT, and sodium nitrate,” advises Davis. For us “old folks” that means wearing your bifocals or reading glasses cuz that print is tiny!!
    8. Follow the Six or Less Rule when Grocery Shopping: “A good rule of thumb is shopping for groceries with six ingredients or less. This helps us steer clear of extremely processed foods that would never be obvious from the outside. For example, when you buy oatmeal, it seems obvious that there would just be oats, but unfortunately, it can be loaded with all sorts of other sweeteners and preservatives. There is no reason to buy oats that are made of anything more than ‘just oats,’” offers Hayim. “You may find that some of your favorite foods and even most highly regarded as ‘health foods’ are made up of zillions of ingredients. The good news is that there’s definitely an alternative and cleaner version of whatever you have to ‘sacrifice’ on the market.” Does that Chocolate Chip Chewy Bar still sound good with all those corn syrup solids, caramel color and soybean oil wedged in there? We didn’t think so. I was appalled to read on the ingredients that some canned vegetables contain sugar…what??
    9. Don’t Focus on What You’re Giving Up: Instead, reframe it on all the delicious real food options now at your fingertips and show stealers in your healthy eating arsenal. “[Rather than thinking about what you’re missing out on, start by] adding more real, nutrient-dense whole foods to your diet and making small changes to the ingredients you use regularly. If you like pasta, replace white, refined pasta with whole grain or even try making noodles out of zucchini. Try sprouted grain bread instead of whole wheat. Try kelp noodles instead of refined noodles in an Asian stir-fry. If you’re at a fast food joint, nix the fries in your combo for a side salad,” says Kotsopoulos. Little changes add up to big differences. IN MY OPINION, THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ON THIS LONG LIST.  REMIND YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE DOING THIS TO BE HEALTHIER AND THAT YOU ARE WORTH IT. MAYBE REMIND YOURSELF HOW AWFUL YOU FEEL BOTH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY WHEN YOU HAVE EATEN A LOT OF UNHEALTHY FOOD.
    10. Eat Protein at Every Meal:  “Protein helps to build and repair muscles; it also helps keep us full and satisfied. For many, incorporating protein at dinner, and even lunch, is usually not an issue,” says Miller. “Breakfast, however, is a little more challenging. Space the protein you eat throughout the day to keep your body strong and cravings at bay. Look for unprocessed lean sources of protein, such as legumes and fresh meats free of preservatives, when possible.” For breakfast, try unsweetened greek yogurt, eggs, or almond butter spread on whole grain toast with banana and cinnamon.
    11. Don’t Swear Off Canned or Frozen Goods: Just because it comes canned, pre-packaged or in the frozen aisle doesn’t necessarily make it off-limits. “Look for no-salt added canned vegetables, frozen or dried fruits without added sugar, or meats without preservatives like MSG,” says Sarah-Jane Bedwell, RD, LDN
    12. Break Up With Processed Cheese: Can I eat cheese while eating clean?”...asked every person ever. “Sure, if the cheese is pure, straight from the source, and unprocessed,” quips Hayim. “Say goodbye to American cheese and Cheez Whiz, and open your arms up to feta and goat cheese. Instead of shopping for cheeses in the dairy aisle, check out the fresh cheese section, and see what is available, keeping in mind the expiration date [See tip #5 above!]. If the cheese is going to last in your fridge for months, step away! This also doesn’t mean it’s okay to add it to every meal or coat your veggies in it, but having a small amount of these cleaner cheeses a few times a week is a great way to keep your food exciting and flavorful.” Also, pre-shredded cheese has more preservatives.
    13. Become a Mindful Eating Guru: Mindlessly eating while on cruise control as you’re watching Netflix or navigating traffic is a recipe for falling off the clean eating train. When you’re mindlessly munching, you’re more likely to overindulge in the bad stuff too (think: nachos, cookies, candy). “Mindfulness is a meditation practice wherein you pay attention to what you eat with all your senses. Studies show that when we see, taste, smell and feel our food, we eat less and enjoy it more,” says Kay. Geneen Roth writes several books on mindful eating…good stuff.  My motto is “Life is too short to eat bad tasting food!”  I want to be able to say yummy with every single bite!! When I am eating mindlessly,  I don’t even remember what I’ve eaten. 
    14. Listen to that Nagging Voice, Eat Your Greens: Nagging? Pfffft. More like necessary! “Greens are a fundamental part of our diet. They’re loaded with nutrients to protect and fight off disease, are low calorie, and help to alkalize our insides. However, we can forget all about them, especially when we go on limiting diets. Make sure to get in greens once a day. Whether it be in a smoothie, as the base of a salad, or as a side dish at dinner, make sure to plan out one way to get greens in per day,” offers Hayim. “Plants are the heart of any healthful diet, and somehow, somewhere, you need to eat them in order to manage your weight and stay healthy for life. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention recommends most of us eat about 9-13 servings of fruits and veggies per day,” adds Kay.  Don’t be afraid to take a class or read up on how to prepare new vegetables.  I am greatful that our daughter Steph has experience with different vegetables and has helped me to become more comfortable in trying them. 
    15. Start with one serving of Greens per Day: Not everyone is born a natural kale head, and that’s fine. “Adding just one extra serving of greens per day [can help] boost energy and health,” says Kotsopoulos. Dark green veggies are loaded in chlorophyll, which helps increase the number of energy-boosting, oxygen rich and revitalizing red blood cells. Toss a handful of spinach to your pasta dishes, throw some kale in your soup, or swap out your whole grain wraps with a collard green wrap. Kale is an acquired taste and I am not fond of  it but that doesn’t stop me from trying other great greens.  I don’t buy iceberg lettuce anymore but almost always Romaine.  How about Butter Lettuce….yummy! I also don’t mind Spinach, either in a salad or in an omelette.  Also, try some of the bagged lettuce combos such as the Southwest Salad Kit by Dole---it’s not as good for you as making your own but if you are trying to learn to eat more green, it’s not too bad. 
    16. Don’t feel Bad about Eating That: “Everyone has a treat now and then, and no one eats perfectly. Here at Kripalu, one of our central teachings is ‘practice, not perfection’, and science shows that feeling guilty about what you eat doesn’t help anyone – especially you,” comments Kay. If you slip up and overindulge, just remind yourself that you’re not going to let a tiny flub derail your entire vow to eat clean.
    17. Drink half your body weight in ounces of water: “[This will work] to clear your complexion, and boost energy. One of the number one causes of fatigue is dehydration. And the same goes for aged skin. Nothing will give you more of a youthful glow than hydrating your skin from the inside out with water. It helps to flush toxins from your body and keeps skin supple,” explains Kotsopoulos.
    18. And Say Adios to Most other Beverages:  You’ve heard it before, but it’s worth swallowing up this healthy reminder: “Skip the sugary drinks, like juice and soda, and opt for water. Plain water is truly the cleanest option; nothing hydrates the body better,” says Miller. Having a hard time weaning yourself off? “For a splash of flavor, try infusing your water with fresh herbs, fruits, or vegetables. Strawberries with basil, blackberries with sage, and cucumber with mint are but a few options.”
    19. Rethink condiments and Salad Dressings: You may rely on them for a flavor-burst on the regular, but most store-bought varieties are loaded with calories, sodium and sugar. “One of my biggest wake-up calls was ketchup. I love ketchup and I’ve been eating it my whole life and never thought twice about it...until I read its label. Now I opt for Annie’s Organic ketchup, which tastes just like real tomatoes, is way less high in sodium, and makes foods less addicting to eat,” says Hayim. “Instead of having a highly-processed salad dressing, try olive oil and vinegar; [instead of mayonnaise] use mashed avocado on a sandwich,” offers Miller. I have also acquired a taste for mustard and often use sour cream with a little mayo in things like deviled eggs.  Many recipes call for you to substitute yogurt for Mayo but I’m not real fond of that taste either. 
    20. Eat Local: Don’t worry, we’re not asking you to become a Portlandia-level advocate of the good food movement and carry an “Eat Local, Think Global” tote everywhere where you go. But eating local can be a key to clean eating success: “Eating local and in season is the best way to pack your body with good nutrients. For example, eating a watermelon (a summer food!) in the dead of winter means one thing: Either it was genetically modified to grow, or it has had a long journey to get into your hands. Either way, it’s not as nutritious as it is in the summer time. Get to know some of the seasonal foods that naturally exist, and embrace those. Farmer’s markets are a great way to learn, and buy,” explains Hayim.
    21. Ban Diet Foods: Toto, we’re not in 1979 Atkins Diet land anymore. “If it says ‘diet’ on it, walk away. Just the other day, I took a recent trip to the ice cream store with my family (yup, even dietitians have a sweet tooth). I knew nothing would be good for me walking in, but I was still up to perusing to see if anything new was on the market. To my surprise, the ice cream store had come out with a ‘lite’ version of their regular soft serve. My ears perked up, so I asked for a taste. It was delicious. As the food investigator that I am, I asked to see the nutrition info. Turns out this ‘lite’ was only ‘lighter’ in fat content, but happened to be almost the same in calories and nearly double the amount of sugar as the regular. It’s easy to get trapped by marketing labels, but I promise, no person has ever gotten healthy and happy living on diet foods,” Hayim offers.
    22. Be a Picky Eater: But, really. Just don’t tell your picky eatin’ sweetie we officially gave you permission. “After you fill up with your fuel, build, and boost foods, spot your must-have additions—whether that’s a creamy crab dip, buttery mashed potatoes, or bourbon pecan pie. Have a spoonful of each, but limit yourself to the a few picks that are truly worth it in your book,” recommends Cassetty. Dark chocolate and peanut butter...everything, we’re calling your name.
    23. Eat Your Meals at the Same Time Every Day: Ever notice how when work meetings or doctor appointments mess with your schedule, you wind up consuming one too many forkfuls of chili cheese fries or too many spoonfuls of ice cream come mealtime? It’s one of the 21 Ways Your Job is Making You Fat! “Eating dinner – or is it breakfast– at 3 a.m. [can really throw off eating clean]. Eating balanced meals at regular times can help manage stress and keep your mood stable,” contributes Kay.
    24. Add More Movement Into Your Life: When you’re more active, you tend to make healthier eating choices. (You might think twice about that loaded burrito for lunch when you’ve got Glutes Gone Wild class at 5:30 p.m.) This, in turn, can make it so you want to exercise more. Now that’s a cycle we can get behind. “Look for excuses to move throughout the day, such as standing to take a phone call or stretching during a TV commercial. Schedule time for exercise; try either three 10 minute sessions throughout the day or one, 30 minute or longer session. Be sure to find activities that you enjoy, such as yoga, walking the dog, basketball, or dancing,” suggests Miller.
    25. Don’t Be a Cookie Monster: Or cake, brownie or ice cream monster for that matter. “Many Americans eat too much added sugar on a daily basis. From baked goods to tomato soup, you never know where added sugars may be hiding. The American Heart Association recommends that women and men have no more than 6 or 9 teaspoons of added sugar per day, respectively,” says Miller. “As you aim to eat clean, focus on eating less added sugars by limiting the amount of sweets and sweetened beverages you have. In addition, pay attention to the ingredient list on packaged foods. Added sugars are often lurking in unexpected places, including tomato-based products (soups, sauces, etc.), yogurts, granola bars, cereal, and peanut butter. Look for foods that do not have any type of sugar listed on the ingredient list or make sure the source of sugar is listed towards the end since that means less of it is used.” When starting on this health journey, clean out your cupboards!!
    26. Follow This Sugar Rule of Thumb: Hayim shares her go-to guideline for added sugar consumption (naturally occurring sugars, like those found in fruits and veggies, are fine!): “Anything that I eat with a label, must be 10 grams of sugar or less. This may sound generous, but once you start looking at labels, you will see this is actually difficult to find. Take Snapple Half and Half. It has 50 grams of added sugar! When you see anything more than 25 grams of sugar in its label, run.”
    27. Don’t Hold Back on Whole Grains: Pasta dreams can still come true even if you’re eating clean so don’t toss ‘em out the door like your worn out running sneaks. Just look for whole grain varieties. Why? “Whole grains provide more nutrients, including fiber, and are less processed than refined grains. The Dietary Guidelines for Americans recommends that at least half of all grains consumed in a day be whole grains,” says Miller. “That’s because the whole grain, including the bran and germ, is used. Make sure the first ingredient on any ‘whole grain’ product is truly a whole grain (e.g. whole wheat, oats, quinoa, farro, brown rice).”
    28. Don’t Bookend Your Sammies Between Wonder Bread: Bread, that is. “One of the most common questions I get as a dietician is ‘Can I eat bread while eating clean?’ Well, sure if the bread is actually bread. That sounds silly, right? Sadly, though, most bread that we traditionally see, is so processed and bleached of nutrients, it’s not even bread!” exclaims Hayim. “It’s hard to find bread that is bread, but there are some solutions that allow you to keep it in your diet. Some good options are making your own, purchasing sprouted grain bread (like Ezekiel), or even purchasing bread from the bakery section, instead of the shelf. Remember, just because we have chosen a more real form of bread, does not give you the green light to consume until you can’t breathe. Eat in moderation, and reap the benefits from its nutrition, and ability to fill you up,” she adds.
    29. Eat More Veggies:  Beyond just greens, strive to include more veggies into your diet. “Vegetables are a rich source of vitamins and minerals that are essential to heart and immune health as well as healthy skin, bones, and vision. Vegetables are also rich in fiber, a nutrient that supports a healthy digestive tract and keeps us feeling full and satisfied throughout the day,” says Miller. “Fresh vegetables are a great option; think eggplant, bell peppers, carrots, radishes, spinach, cucumbers, tomatoes, and mushrooms---the options are endless. If choosing canned or frozen, stick with vegetables free of added ingredients, especially salt, by looking at the ingredient list. Aim to have a vegetable with every meal. Better yet, try to fill half your plate with veggies. They add volume and nutrition to your meal without a lot of calories.” In fact, this half-plate rule is one of the 10 Genius Tips to Lose 10 Pounds!
    30. Eat Living Foods: Don’t worry, you’re kale shake ain’t jumping out of your cup anytime soon. “Eating living foods just means eating foods that are close to where they came from. For example, you could choose fresh tomatoes, or you could choose Ragu for your pasta. The tomato, however, has just been picked from the ground, and has done a lot less traveling (both miles and time in transit) to get to your hand, and, therefore, has a higher nutritional content,” explains Hayim.
    31. Be a Strategic Eater: “Repeat after me: Fuel, build, boost,” says Cassetty. “Think of your fruits and veggies as your fuel. Build from there with lean proteins, like shrimp and turkey, and boost out your plate with whole grains (think brown or wild rice and quinoa).” Next time you ask “What’s for dinner? ” try and remind yourself of this mantra as you strategize your kitchen MO.
    32. Eat What Makes You Feel Good: Giddy up for good health! Time to open up a new google doc or create a note on your phone, folks. “Keep a food journal for a few days without changing your eating habits, and then start trying to eat clean and keep a journal doing that for a few days. Instead of focusing on calorie count on these days, simply write down what you ate and any notes about how you feel each day,” says Bedwell. “You may notice a big difference in things like energy level and mood when you start eating clean.”  This follows the mindful eating concept…often eating sweets or chips makes us feel miserable but we are so used to that feeling that we don’t even notice.  I found I was taking an antacid before bed and researched that chocolate is often the culprit…yes, even the dark chocolate square I was eating in the evening so I had to decide, did I want to continue with the chocolate or feel miserable and take an antacid?
    33. Don’t Mash Your Potatoes: This starchy veggie is often blended with cream, salt, and butter and not much of a healthy dinner companion. Instead, try a cauliflower mash. “If nearly 300 calories of high glycemic carbs aren't your idea of a to-die-for side dish, consider making cauliflower mashed potatoes instead. The per-cup savings: About 135 calories and 4.5 grams of saturated fat. You’ll also get more fiber in the mashed cauliflower. More good news: It’s suitable for people avoiding gluten and dairy, and is also great for Paleo dieters,” comments Cassetty.
    34. Shop the Perimeter (of the Grocery Store): “The outside of the grocery market is usually filled with the most real foods, like fresh dairy, fresh meat, fruits, and veggies,” says Hayim. The interior aisles? Beware of many dieting landmines! “The inside is usually designed to be the shelf area, where foods (if we can even call them that) can sit for months and even years. Of course, some of our essentials are found on the inside, but aim to get most of your groceries from the perimeter.”
    35. Shop the Rainbow too (buy colorful food): “‘Clean’ foods pack the highest nutrient value for the lowest number of calories,” comments Davis. “Brightly-colored fruits and vegetables supply more nutrients compared to the number of calories they supply. Less nutrient-dense foods provide empty calories and tend to look lighter or whiter, contain refined sugar, or high amounts of unhealthy fats.” I like to try new foods as often as possible.  This week it was a Galia melon (was a cross between cantaloupe and honeydew)…yummy! Have you tried Jicama?  It’s white so doesn’t help with eating rainbow colors but I love it’s crisp, earthy taste eaten raw.
    36. Cut Back on Salt Intake Real talk, guys: excess sodium in your diet can contribute to belly I wcooking with salt, use herbs and spices to add flavor.”;
    37. Remember Real Food Goes Bad and That’s OK: The same may not apply to your Tinder date lying about height, but when it comes to shelf life, the shorter the better: “If a shelf life is a few months or longer, put it down: There are a few exceptions to this rule (such as grains or oats), but it’s safe to say that foods with very long shelf life will not provide you with the best nutrition. Most perishable foods come with an expiration date, and go bad soon after purchase...Eating clean may seem a bit more costly at first, but will certainly be cheaper than any bill from a doctor or hospital stay in the long run,” shares Hayim. This is hard because we  were taught not to waste food but it happens. This also goes for food we’ve tried and didn’t like so have to throw it out…it’s all part of the learning process and is better than being afraid to try something new.   
    38. Embrace the Hipster Eateries: Don’t worry, you can still skip the flannel and Converses. “A handful of hipster fast-food chains catering to clean eating types are starting to pop up across the country,” says Davis. They feature fresh (and often local) ingredients and what you see is what you get, so you don’t have to worry about icky additives hiding behind closed doors. In fact, you’ll probably be met with basil plants dangling at the doors. “East Coasters can find clean offerings at Sweetgreen and West Coasters can find real foods at Veggie Grill.”  I will honestly say that there are not a lot around here…even a place like Panera is NOT healthy.  The People’s Organic Restaurant in Fargo seems to be pretty healthy but you have to read the ingredients.  BUT we can order a small steak or unbreaded shrimp, steamed veggies or salad with Italian dressing. 
    39. Slash the Boozing: We’re not saying ditch the vino completely, but try to limit your consumption. “Another important principle of clean eating is keeping unwanted additives, pesticides, and other chemicals out of your body,” says Davis. “So drinking alcohol, a liver toxin, is not really consistent with a clean eating plan. Drink lots of water to flush your system of toxins and keep you well-hydrated. While we have you, find out the 14 amazing things that happen to your body when you stop drinking! This is hard in the summer since we live on a lake and a Hard Cider after a warm day on the pontoon tastes pretty good.  The hardest part is that having alcohol lowers my defenses to saying no to other unhealthy stuff. 
    40. Wave Out the White Stuff: Eating out? “Ask to replace white rice or potatoes with whole grains, such as a brown rice option if they have it, or with steamed veggies or a salad,” advises Kotsopoulos.
    41. Stick with Healthy Fats: Your daily guac habit texted: She’s glad you’re in love, but hoping you’ll add some more healthy fats to your routine. “Instead of trying to eliminate fats from your diet, focus on incorporating more healthy ones. Simply swapping mono- and poly-unsaturated fats for saturated and trans fats can have a significant impact on your health. Mono- and poly- unsaturated fats are found naturally in olive and canola oil, nuts, seeds, fatty fish, olives, and avocados; they are considered healthy fats as they have been shown to raise your ‘good’ cholesterol (HDL) and promote heart health,” explains Miller. “Saturated and trans fats are considered unhealthy fats as they are associated with an increased risk of heart disease. They are often found in high-fat dairy foods, such as butter, cream, and cheese, as well as meat and heavily processed foods.”
    42. Get Used to Saying “Hold the Sauce, Please” : This four-word phrase is a must-do when it comes to clean eating. “Have sauces and dressings served on the side, so you can control the amount you eat or skip them completely,” says Kotsopoulos. “If it’s a cream or butter sauce avoid it completely and use fresh lemon juice and olive oil instead.”
    43. Avoid Processed Fat Free foods at All Costs: Snackwell cookies, we’re looking at you. “Overly refined foods, especially refined carbohydrates like fat-free cookies, cakes or chips, can trigger inflammation and actually make you hungrier through the day. Instead, choose high-quality whole food – for snacks try nut butter and fruit or celery, or enjoy an occasional cookie made with higher quality ingredients – like real butter (grass-fed organic, even better), and organic whole grains,” suggests Kay.
    44. Be a Smarter Meat Eater: C’mon, you’re getting bored of that daily grilled chicken breast anyways. “Clean meat may be one of the most important 2016 trends. Organic meats and meat free from antibiotics and hormones are simply better choices. More manufacturers are catching onto this as the sourcing of meat becomes more transparent. As many people choose to be vegetarian or ‘flexitarian,’ high-quality meats consumed in small quantities can provide the protein and missing amino acids that many of us need,” says Dr. Taz. “Learn your meat ‘story,’ get meat smart and limit the amount of meat consumed daily. One serving of meat per day is often enough for us all.”  Many of us were raised on summer sausage and bologna but they are SO unhealthy for us.  Switch to chicken or turkey on your sandwiches. 
    45. Have a DIY Desserts Rule: “If you are going to indulge in a sweet treat, make it yourself,” says Bedwell. “That way you are using real, whole food ingredients (such as eggs, butter, and flour) rather than the ingredients that are often in packaged, processed treats (such as partially hydrogenated oils, preservatives, and high fructose corn syrup).” Serious sweet tooth? Familiarize yourself with these 8 dessert survival strategies and never cry chocolate chip tears again. This is the only rule I disagree with since baking your own treats involves extra cookies or cake and I can’t resist the temptation when they are in the house so I would rather buy ONE cupcake or small packet of oreos if I am going to indulge so I am not tempted by the leftover cookies etc.  Those recipes for desserts in a mug are a good alternative too.
    46. Always Order One Vegan Item When Eating Out: Maybe it’s your entree, or maybe it’s just asking for that string bean and sundried tomato dish to be sauteed in olive oil instead of butter. But always shoot to consume at least one plant-based item when you’re at a restaurant. Not only will it help quell overeating on other stuff (vegan options tend to be heavy on fiber) but it’s a boon for your health. “Plant-based foods are loaded in vitamins, minerals and antioxidants that help your body function optimally,” says Kotsopoulos.
    47. Choose Fruit Over Juice “Many of us get deluded into thinking clean eating is drinking more juice,” says Dr. Taz. “Always choose whole fruit over any fruit juice, to gain benefits from eating the fiber and allowing the digestive process to absorb the nutrient from the fruit.” An apple will work wonders to fill you up before a meal. A glass of apple juice? Not so much.:
    48. Make a Better Cup of Coffee or Tea: “Replace sugar in your coffee or tea with cinnamon, which actually lowers blood sugar levels,” suggests Kotsopoulos. "Sugar is of the top causes of weight gain—especially around the midsection. Plus it suppresses your immune system and affects mood.”Coffee Mate makes a Natural Bliss creamer which has few ingredients and no preservatives. 
    49. Make 2016 the Year You Never Drink Diet Soda Again: Drinking diet soda for your harmless sweet-fix? Sorry, guys, but you just gotta give it up. “Diet soda might be calorie-free, but that super-sweet flavor [seduces your brain big time.] People who drink diet soda tend to get hungrier for sweets, and over time, have greater waist circumference (that’s science-speak for bigger bellies),” offers Kay. You might find it easier to go “cold turkey” than cutting back to one a day, but do whatever works best for you.  Recently, I  started drinking ICE (flavored water) as I really like the taste even though I know it is as bad for me as diet soda.  After a few days of drinking two large bottles a day, I started aching so bad that I had to take Ibuprofen.  I asked myself what was causing the aching and realized it was the ICE.  The aching went away after a couple of days of stopping the ICE.  So it’s not just diet soda but many flavored water that have the artificial sugar and preservatives that are bad for us.
    50. Add Spice for a Healthier Life: It may have a cutesy-sounding ring to it, but this rhyme means serious business: “Whenever possible, flavor your dishes with fresh and fragrant herbs and spices that pack an antioxidant punch,” suggests Davis. “Herbs and spices that rank at the top of the free radical-quelling antioxidant list include oregano, sage, thyme, rosemary, and cumin.”